I believe God connects your steps to each other. So, I don’t think we have to find our person. I think God makes that intentionally happen. And when you show up each day like that, you’re positioning yourself in the place to be able to meet your person. You just have to show up each day with a willing spirit, present yourself in such a way that you’re ready to meet your person, and be in relationship with someone. I’m so grateful we found each other, but the fact is that we didn’t have to search. I never would’ve thought my husband would be in Seaside, FL, the day I happened to be there on vacation with my friends. If I’d tried to “find” Christian, I genuinely don’t know if I would’ve found him because I wouldn’t have been looking where he was. When you say you have to “find love,” you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself because if you have to find something, then you have to go searching for it. You don’t have to try to figure out who your person is. I think I would tell my younger self to just rest and wait. Question 2: What would you tell your younger self who felt like they would never find the right person for them? But whenever both people truly know themselves and are rooted in who God is, two people becoming one make such a strong one. And so many only have fifty percent to give because they were focusing on other things the whole time and never took the time to know yourself. They said that whenever two people become one, it’s not fifty-fifty. You have to have a moment in your life when you’re focusing on who God is and who you are so that when you go into a relationship, you’re a whole person. He was focusing on the Lord and himself which is so important. Find good Godly community with other girls who are seeking the same purpose! During that season in Christian’s life, he wasn’t just preparing himself for our relationship. He truly believes that time in his life prepared him for our relationship.
In the season before he and I started dating, he was very intentional about spending alone time with God, and having bible study groups and prayer nights.
Christian said prayer and building a community of guys around him were the two key elements in his season of waiting. So, I thought Christian would be the perfect person to answer this one since he has great advice on the topic. There are tons of people out there waiting for their person and wondering what to do in the process. Question 1: What were some things you did intentionally while you were waiting for each other?
I’m so excited to share this one with you! Let’s dive in to the DM’s! Today’s a GOOD day on the blog, because I get to share a WTG episode I recorded with one of my favorite people – my husband! Christian and I get to answer some questions about relationships, faith, life, and all the things.
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